well its been awhile since i did a review or blogged in general....a lot has been going on...i kinda need some advise on what i should do..here it goes...me and the hubby have 2 kids a 4 year old and a 1 year old. and for some  reason the hubbys side of the family refuses to acknowledge the 1 year old..whenever they take the 4 year old to visit for the weekend, they usually just leave the baby home. they'll take the older one to the park, and leave the baby at the house. even though he is quite capable of playing at the park, and likes to do so. they try to tell me that hes too much to handle. but they always have my hubbys sisters baby who is a month younger than my 1 year old. they tell me that we favor the baby, which isnt true, and they second guess everything that we do with the 4 year old...for example..they brought my oldest a flat screen tv for his birthday (which i was against, because hes 4 and likes to break everything) and the other day he pushed it off the stand and onto his brother, when i asked him why he did this he tells me..."because i wanted to" so he was not gonna spend the weekend by their house, and we took the tv away. they got mad and started talking crap about how we were overracting, and everythings about the baby. mind you this isnt the first time they've done something like this...i have been dealing with them complaining about how i raise my kids since the day my 4 year old was born, like im not capable of deciding what is good for my kids...they are way to pushy and are really starting to drive me bonkers :)..i just really dont know what to do in this situation, because its not my family thats doing it, its his, and i know if it was mine i would have already  told them off...i just really dont know how to handle this,  because my  hubby doesn't seem to think he needs to be involved...which is another problem all in its own...im just really starting to lose my patience here and need some help....thanks <3